The Client's Lounge

Welcome to the client's lounge where we have tried to answer many questions guys just like you want to ask!

I'VE NEVER HIRED AN ESCORT BEFORE....IS THIS SOMETHING I SHOULD DO? I MEAN WILL IT WORK OUT?
In all honesty there isn’t a simple answer to that and any answer will differ from client and escort to client and escort. So the only way to find out is to try it and see. Don’t go into a meeting expecting it to be an earth-moving experience but rather genuine and harmless fun, be relaxed and it’ll be fine. Go to the meeting feeling happy and not sad or lonely, the way you feel will dictate the mood of all that happens. If you like the experience it will be something you will not regret and want to repeat. Don’t hire an escort looking for love, the escort is selling you his time and his good company - you can not buy love.

WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE BOOK ESCORTS ?If this isn’t too much of a cliché - people like you book escorts. But generally professional or business people, somebody trying to live on the national minimum wage probably would not be able to afford the luxury. Yes, it is a luxury - an indulgence - a special treat. Quite simply if you are giving genuine and sincere thought to booking an escort and can find the fee without causing yourself any hardship then you will be one hundred percent typical of the clients an escort entertains.

WHAT WILL I GET FOR MY MONEY ? An escort is giving you his time in exchange for a fee and what happens during that time is between two consenting adults. You should talk to your chosen guy beforehand and agree with him what's really important to you. If this is your first time make sure you tell the escort, be 100% open. If, in return, the escort appears to be less than open with you or if he is reluctant about discussing things on the phone, or is hesitant about what you ask, perhaps you should look elsewhere. Contact by e-mail is also a good way of discussing your needs but there is no real substitute for talking. Most escorts will not respond to text messages. Only book the escort if you are sure, don‘t keep your fingers crossed and trust to good luck. Bad experiences between escorts and clients are generally due to failed expectations and surprises resulting from poor initial contact.

IS IT SAFE TO SEE ESCORTS ? Seeing an escort is very safe providing you are sensible and choose someone who is advertising. If the guy has gone to the trouble of having his own website published or placing his profile on several different websites he is going to be sincere and genuine.

Don't - don’t - don’t pick up 'rent boys' from the street or in pubs. This is foolish beyond measure and remember that an escort is NOT a rent boy - now way - he is totally different.

Seeing a genuine escort is almost certainly safer than meeting someone from Gaydar or other internet chat room.

If the escort is coming to your home for the first time, treat him like you would any stranger in your home - be welcoming but sensible, don't leave valuables or personal details lying around . If you have got a friend you can trust, who knows what you're doing, tell him or her when you are seeing someone and where you will be meeting.

WHAT SHOULD I SAY WHEN I CALL...I AM LIKELY TO BE NERVOUS ? Treat the call just like any other call you may make to someone in your business or social life for the first time. Give your name and ask if it is a good time to talk. A guy may be “on call” 24/7 but the chances are he has a day job, several escorts are students trying to eek out their student loans, and will have areas of life where it is not easy to discuss business. An escort is not going to be able to speak freely if he’s visiting his old granny.

The escort’s profile and any web pages attached will give you his brief outline but it's worth checking these with him quickly. Tell him where you saw his profile, this information is of significant value to a guy particularly if he is paying to advertise on web sites or in magazines - it helps him know if his advertising money is being well spent.

However, don’t spend ages on these introductory points, then come to the point and say what you are looking for: check what he charges and his availability. Don’t be silly in what you ask, escorts find it so frustrating to be asked the same highly personal and often irrelevant questions over and over again. If you decide you want to see him, sort out a time, place and agree the fee. If you are not sure be honest and say that you would like to think about it and will ring him back if you want to go ahead, he will respect this honesty far more than you wasting his time. If the escort is too pressing, talks too much about money, is impolite or rude in any way, forget it and look elsewhere. But don’t forget clients need to be polite too, the way you speak will be reflected in the response you receive.

Escorts get thousands of nuisance calls but it's all part of the job and they should always be polite. Don't ring the middle of the night or ask the escort over and over again for intimate details without any intention of seeing him, just as a way to get off on the phone - this isn‘t being fair and is highly disrespectful. Some clients make all kinds of arrangements and just don't show up. They are an absolute pain and waste of space. Don't be one of them, it‘s so totally out of order ! If you call and get through to voice mail it is best to leave a brief message and say you will call back. Unless you are calling an escort you already know better not to give your number and ask for him to call you back.

CAN I BE BLACKMAILED ? Blackmail is sometimes feared by clients but there really isn’t any risk of it happening. The escort has probably much more to lose than you have. If your escort is visiting you, you will have to give him enough information to find you. Otherwise keep your personal details to a necessary minimum. There is no harm in using a name other than your own.

I'M A LOT OLDER THEN THE ESCORT - WILL THAT BE A PROBLEM ? If you are genuine and honest it shouldn't be a problem at all. Tell the escort your age, be honest, and see what he says. Also if you're disabled in any way, or have any special requests, tell him. Escorts who are professional about their work will not be concerned about the age of their clients. But no escort wants to meet a client who is dirty or smelly, stinking of tobacco, garlic or stale alcohol.

WILL HE PRACTICE SAFE SEX ? Of course seeing an escort isn’t only about meeting up for a romantic meal, going out together to a club or discussing international politics. All escorts and their clients need to be aware of the risks of unprotected sex (sex without a condom). If an escort is offering bareback sex don‘t even think about it, it would be like playing Russian Roulette with bullets in more than just one of the gun’s chambers ! All escorts should practice safe sex and should never agree to do anything unsafe even if vast sums of money are offered. Some escorts go so far as to only give oral sex if the client wears a condom. If this is an issue for you, check with him first. Always use strong condoms and plenty of lubricant for anal sex. But remember anal sex is not always offered, so check first.

HOW DO I CHOOSE AN ESCORT ? Adverts, profiles and personal websites like our website will give you a good idea of what the guy is like. If you are booking an escort from a magazine advert probably best not to book anyone who does not publish a photo. Read a guy’s profile very carefully and if he has a website of his own check it out. If there is anything that you are not comfortable with then perhaps best to look at a different guy. At the same time remember you are not likely to find somebody who fits your desires one hundred percent. You will be buying the escort’s time and while he will be friendly and courteous you are not buying his friendship. That said I do know of clients and escorts who have become long-term friends both inside and outside commercial bookings. But I have yet to find an escort and client who have fallen in love and entered into a relationship. Remember you can not buy love. You are hiring an escort for some innocent pleasure and no matter what you will not be able to turn him into one of your fantasies.

WHAT SHOULD I WEAR TO THE MEETING ? Smart casual is the general order of the day. More important is your personal hygiene. Have a shower or bath before the meeting, be well groomed and clean your teeth. Basic things but essential if you want the meeting to go well.

WHAT CAN I DO IF HE'S NOT WHAT I WANT ? If he has seriously misled you in any way, you have a perfect right just to leave and not pay. Some escorts allow you to show up and leave without paying if you're not satisfied with the way they look. But they are the minority. Most would expect you to pay something even if you don't want to go through with it. If you're really worried about this, talk to him about it before you meet.

HOW MUCH WILL IT COST ME ? This varies quite a lot. If you hire an escort via an agency it can cost well over £150 + travel costs for a guy to visit you at your home or hotel. In all honesty decide if you think the extra costs of an agency, who will be taking a substantial cut from the fee, is worthwhile or not.

If you visit an escort who works for himself at his home you will probably be charged at least £80 for an one hour with some charging substantially more. Usually the second hour is charged at a slightly lower rate and if this is your first time you should give serious consideration to making a two hour booking. If the escort suggests a two hour meeting he is probably not trying to scam you for more money but genuinely knowing that it usually takes time for you to relax before you can begin to enjoy the meeting.

As with so many things in life, prices do vary in different parts of the country with London and the South East costing more simply because the cost of living is higher there.

For an escort to visit you (an out call) he is going to be looking for more than if you go to see him (an in call). Obviously he has to travel which costs him money and for an hour visit he may well have to spend more than this in time getting to and from your home or hotel.

Most escorts offer an over night rate, usually in the region of £400-£500 + Travel and if you want an escort to go away with you on holiday or a business trip you will have to discuss costs fully. Don’t haggle, discuss - there is a difference. It is more than a good idea to book an escort a couple of times before inviting him to join you on a business trip to New York or go on holiday with you to Barbados.

If you ask an escort to visit you at a late hour it is not really right to expect him to use public transport, it is only fair that you pay taxi fares.

Finally, if you go out for drink or a meal, perhaps to the theatre or cinema then you will be paying all the costs. Only right after all. An escort would never expect it but in some circumstances a small gift is always appreciated. For example hiring an escort for company on a business trip, if you go out shopping buying him something to remember his time by- such would be quite appropriate.